I have always been very trusting of the people around me. Some would say gullible, maybe. I much prefer that label over ‘paranoid’. This outlook often comes with painful lessons about those around you who have the time and energy not only to distrust you, but also to plan ways to abuse the trust you have given them. I can’t say I regret it. I can say that I would rather not go through the pain of learning that someone has taken the long view in gaining my trust only to take advantage of me later, sometimes years later.

I learn who I can trust, and I know where not to look for help, but I remember, and it doesn’t happen again, and they no longer have any effect on my life.

They, however, have spent time and energy on something that may give them short-lived satisfaction or monetary gain, and have gained the reputation they have worked so hard to attain.

I would rather be a little gullible, trusting, and happy without having to track back my lies the rest of my life.